These four verbs often confuse learners because they are all related to communication. However, they are not interchangeable. This lesson will help you understand the differences clearly and use each verb with confidence.
1️⃣ TELL
Meaning: to give information to someone
Structure
Tell + person + (what was said) ⚠️ NO “to” before the person
Examples
I told Marcos the truth.
She told me about the trip.
He told her to check it out.
❌ I told to Marcos.
👉 Tell already includes the idea of “to someone”.
2️⃣ SAY
Meaning: to express words / focus on the message
Structure
Say + something
Say + something + TO + someone
Examples
She said hello.
He said hello to Marcos.
I said I was tired.
❌ I said Marcos.
👉 If you mention the person, you need to.
3️⃣ TALK
Meaning: to have a conversation (interaction)
Structure
Talk + TO + someone
Examples
I talked to Marcos yesterday.
We talked about work.
❌ I talked Marcos.
👉 Talk focuses on interaction, not the message itself.
4️⃣ SPEAK
Meaning: to talk in a more formal way
Commonly used for:
Languages
Formal situations
Structure
Speak + a language
Speak + TO + someone
Examples
I speak English.
She spoke to the manager.
Quick Comparison
Verb
Structure
Tell
tell someone (NO to)
Say
say something (to someone)
Talk
talk to someone
Speak
speak to someone / a language
Exercises
Exercise 1 — Choose the correct verb
Complete the sentences with tell, say, talk, or speak.
I need to ______ you something important.
She didn’t ______ anything to me.
We talked and ______ about our plans.
He ______ to his boss this morning.
Can you ______ English?
Exercise 2 — Correct the sentences
Find and correct the mistake.
I told to her the truth.
He said me the answer.
She talked her yesterday.
I speak to English at work.
Exercise 3 — Make the sentences correct
I told ______ to check it out.
She said it ______ Marcos.
They talked ______ their trip.
He speaks ______ Spanish and French.
🗝️ Answer Key
Exercise 1
tell
say
talked
spoke
speak
Exercise 2
I told her the truth.
He told me the answer / He said the answer to me.
She talkedto her yesterday.
I speak English at work.
Exercise 3
you / him / her / them
to
about
— (no preposition)
More Practice
Exercise 4 — Choose the best option
Choose the correct verb.
She didn’t ______ a word during the meeting.
I need to ______ to you about something important.
He ______ me he would be late.
Can you ______ a little louder, please?
They were ______ about their vacation.
Exercise 5 — Tell or Say?
Choose tell or say and make the sentence correct.
She ______ me the truth.
He ______ it to his parents.
Don’t ______ anyone about this.
What did she ______?
Exercise 6 — Rewrite using the verb in brackets
Rewrite the sentence using the verb in parentheses.
I said to her, “Don’t worry.” (tell)
He spoke to the teacher yesterday. (talk)
She said hello to me. (tell)
They talked to the manager. (speak)
Exercise 7 — Real-life use
Complete the sentences so they sound natural.
I need to ______ my kids to slow down.
She didn’t ______ goodbye.
We need to ______ to the doctor.
He ______ three languages.
🗝️ Answer Key
Exercise 4
say
talk
told
speak
talking
Exercise 5
told
said
tell
say
Exercise 6
I told her not to worry.
He talked to the teacher yesterday.
She told me hello.
They spoke to the manager.
Exercise 7
tell
say
talk / speak
speaks
Teacher’s Note — SAY vs TELL (Important)
Although the structure say + something + to someone is correct, the type of something matters.
✔ SAY sounds natural with:
short words or expressions (hello, sorry, goodbye)
direct speech (words in quotes)
Examples:
I said hello to my mom.
I said, “Relax,” to my mom.
⚠️ With long ideas or instructions, SAY + that + clause + to someone is grammatically possible, but not natural for beginners or everyday speech.
❌ I said that we should relax to my mom. (heavy / unnatural)
👉 In these cases, TELL is preferred:
I told my mom to relax.
I told her that we should relax.
📌 Teaching tip: use SAY for words and TELL for ideas.
👉 Extra Practice
Exercise 1 – Choose SAY or TELL
Complete with say or tell (use the correct tense):
She ______ she was tired.
He ______ me the truth.
What did you ______ to your teacher?
I ______ my mom I would be late.
They ______ “Stop!” very loudly.
Can you ______ me your name again?
Exercise 2 – Fix the sentence (common mistakes)
Corrija as frases:
❌ I said my friend the news.
❌ She told “hello” to me.
❌ He said to me that he was busy.
❌ I said that to my mom.
Exercise 3 – Complete with say (focus only on say)
Complete the sentences using say / said:
Please ______ something.
She ______ “thank you” and left.
What did he ______ about the test?
Don’t ______ that again.
I never ______ that!
🗝️ Answer Key
Exercise 1
said
told
say
told
said
tell
Exercise 2
I told my friend the news.
She said “hello” to me.
He told me that he was busy.
I said that. / I told my mom that.
Exercise 3
say
said
say
say
said
✨ Tip for learners:
If you’re unsure, ask yourself:
We all know that it’s polite to say “Thank you” to someone after they’ve done something good or helpful.
And as you learn words like “please,” “thank you,” “sorry,” and “excuse me,” mastering your manners in English can really help you sound more natural. If you don’t use these expressions in certain situations, it can even sound like you’re not really speaking English at all! That’s what my experience with the language has shown me!
So, if someone thanks you for something, what can you say in reply?
1. “You’re welcome” — the classic reply
“You’re welcome” is the most common response. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with using it. It’s the standard, polite reply, and in many cases, it comes out automatically.
But because it’s so common, it can feel a bit overused. That’s why it’s essential to expand your vocabulary and learn other ways to respond—each with slightly different meanings or levels of formality.
2. Good manners in English
If you want to sound more natural or native-like, you’ll often use variations of “you’re welcome” instead of the phrase itself.
Below is a short skit that shows different ways people reply to “thank you.”
👉 Try watching it first without English subtitles, focusing on pronunciation.
Then watch it again with subtitles if you need support.
Do the same with all four videos in this lesson.
3. Useful expressions to respond to “THANK YOU”
Neutral
You’re welcome.
More formal
You’re quite welcome.
You’re very welcome.
You’re so welcome.
You’re truly welcome.
Informal
Don’t mention it.
No worries.
Don’t worry about it.
It was no problem.
Not a problem.
No problem.
No prob! (slang)
Sure.
Sure, no worries.
Sure thing.
Sure, anytime.
It was nothing.
It’s nothing.
Anytime!
Professional or social situations
The pleasure is mine.
It’s my pleasure.
It was my pleasure.
With pleasure.
My pleasure.
Pleasure.
I’m happy I could help.
I’m happy to help.
I’m glad to help.
Happy to help.
👉 Watch the last two responses from Bob in the video below.
4. Quiz
The following material includes a short quiz so you can practice the expressions you’ve just learned.
5. And one more thing!
Next time you thank someone, don’t be surprised if they reply:
👉 “Thank YOU!”
This means that not only did you benefit from the situation, but they also feel that you helped them in some way.
Use: to describe people, things, places, time, emotions.
Examples:
I’m tired today.
She was at the gym yesterday.
They are friends.
✏️ Exercises:
Complete with am, is, are, was or were: a) I ___ at home right now. b) She ___ a teacher. c) We ___ in Paris last summer. d) You ___ very kind! e) It ___ rainy yesterday.
Make the sentences negative: a) He is my brother. → b) They were late. → c) I’m happy. →
Make questions: a) She is from Brazil. → b) You were at the party. →
2. Simple Present
Use: habits, routines, general truths. Structure: subject + base verb (+s/es in 3rd person)
Examples:
I study English every day.
She goes to the gym on Mondays.
The sun rises in the east.
✏️ Exercises:
Complete: a) He ___ (play) soccer every weekend. b) I ___ (not like) coffee. c) ___ you ___ (work) on Saturdays?
Write/say 3 sentences about your daily routine.
Correct the mistakes: a) She go to school by bus. b) Do he like pizza? c) They doesn’t live here.
3. Simple Past
Use: finished actions in the past. Structure: subject + past form of verb (regular: +ed / irregular: 2nd column)
Examples:
I visited my grandparents yesterday.
They went to the beach last weekend.
✏️ Exercises:
Complete:
a) We ___ (watch) a movie last night.
b) She ___ (go) to bed late.
c) I ___ (not see) him yesterday.
d) ___ you ___ (study) for the test?
Transform to negative:
a) He worked on Sunday. →
b) They met their friends. →
Write 3 sentences about what you did last weekend.
Complete:
a) I ___ (never / eat) sushi.
b) She ___ (just / call) you.
c) They ___ (not / visit) New York.
d) ___ you ever ___ (try) surfing?
Rewrite in present perfect:
a) I saw this movie. →
b) She finished her project. →
5. Present Continuous
Use: actions happening now or around now. Structure: am/is/are + verb + ing
Examples:
I’m studying English.
She is cooking dinner.
They are not working today.
✏️ Exercises:
Complete:
a) I ___ (read) a book now.
b) She ___ (not / sleep).
c) ___ they ___ (watch) TV?
Choose the correct option:
a) Listen! The birds (sing / are singing).
b) We (study / are studying) for the test now.
Write 3 sentences about what people in your family are doing right now.
6. Going to – future plans and intentions
Use: plans already decided or clear intentions. Structure: am/is/are + going to + verb
Examples:
I’m going to travel next month.
They’re going to buy a new car.
✏️ Exercises:
Complete:
a) We ___ (visit) Grandma tomorrow.
b) She ___ (not / study) tonight.
c) ___ you ___ (take) the test again?
Write 3 sentences about what you’re going to do this weekend.
7. Will – predictions, promises, spontaneous decisions
Use:
Predictions: It will rain tomorrow.
Promises: I’ll help you.
Instant decisions: I’ll call her now!
✏️ Exercises:
Complete:
a) I think it ___ (rain) tonight.
b) Don’t worry, I ___ (help) you.
c) She ___ (not / be) late.
Make sentences using “will” for:
a) a promise
b) a prediction
c) a quick decision
✏️ 8. Mixed Practice
Complete with the correct tense of the verb in parentheses:
I ___ (be) very tired yesterday.
She ___ (study) English every day.
They ___ (just / arrive).
We ___ (go) to the park tomorrow.
Look! It ___ (rain)!
I ___ (not see) him since last year.
He ___ (be) a teacher for 10 years.
Don’t worry — I ___ (help) you with your homework.
She ___ (watch) TV now.
___ you ___ (ever / travel) abroad?
🗣️ 9. Personal Practice (Speaking or Writing)
Answer in complete sentences:
Where are you from?
What do you usually do on Sundays?
What did you do yesterday?
Have you ever eaten something exotic?
What are you doing right now?
What are you going to do next weekend?
What will you do if it rains tomorrow?
🌀 Mixed Practice – Level up!
A. Complete the sentences with the correct verb form.
I ______ (be) tired yesterday, but I ______ (feel) great today.
She ______ (not / see) that movie yet.
Look! It ______ (snow)!
We ______ (go) to the beach every summer.
They ______ (not / be) at school last Friday.
I think it ______ (rain) tonight.
He ______ (study) English for three years.
We ______ (go) to travel to Canada next year.
I ______ (not / have) breakfast this morning.
Where ______ you (be) at 9 a.m.?
B. Rewrite the sentences as requested.
She goes to work by bus. (make negative) →
They watched a movie last night. (make a question) →
I’ve been to Italy. (make negative) →
He’s cooking dinner. (change to simple present) →
I’m going to call my friend. (change to will) →
C. Choose the correct answer.
I ____ my keys. Can you help me find them?
a) lost b) have lost c) lose
She ____ TV when the phone rang.
a) watches b) was watching c) has watched
We ____ in this city since 2010.
a) live b) lived c) have lived
Don’t worry! I ____ you with that.
a) help b) am helping c) will help
What ____ you ____ tonight?
a) do / do b) are / doing c) did / do
D. Fill in with your own ideas (personal answers).
I’m really happy because I’m ______.
Yesterday I ______.
I have never ______.
Next weekend I’m going to ______.
I think I will ______ in the future.
E. Translate into English.
Eu estava cansado, mas feliz.
Ela nunca visitou Nova York.
Está chovendo muito agora.
Eles vão comprar um carro novo.
Acho que vou dormir cedo hoje.
F. Challenge: Combine the tenses!
Write a short paragraph (5–6 sentences) that includes at least four different tenses.
Example:
I’m studying English because I’ve always loved languages. I started when I was ten. My teacher is amazing! Next year, I’m going to take an exam, and I’m sure I’ll pass it.